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020			_a9781524797713 _cRM 99.90 _qhardback
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082	0	4	_223 _a649.1
090	0	0	_a649.1 _bSIE _dG
100	1		_aSiegel, Daniel J. _d1957- _eauthor
245	1	4	_aTHE POWER OF SHOWING UP : _bHOW PARENTAL PRESENCE SHAPES WHO OUR KIDS BECOME AND HOW THEIR BRAINS GET WIRED / _cDANIEL J. SIEGEL, M.D., AND TINA PAYNE BRYSON, PH.D.
250			_aFirst edition.
264		1	_aNew York : _bBallantine Books, _c2020
264		4	_c©2020
300			_axiv, 238 pages : _billustrations ; _c25 cm.
336			_atext _2rdacontent
336			_astill image _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _2rdacarrier
520			_a "One of the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out--in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships--is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order. But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide once you understand the four building blocks of a child's healthy development. Every child needs to feel what Siegel and Bryson call the Four S's: Safe: We can't always insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to take the needed risks for growth and change. Seen: Truly seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior. Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along the way. Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive! Based on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for them.
650		0	_aParenting _xPsychological aspects.
650		0	_aParent and child _xPsychological aspects.
700	1		_aBryson, Tina Payne, _eauthor.
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